Lady Lydia’s protocol

Lady Lydia gleefully enjoys what she does with her clients and her dungeon is an arena for creativity and expansion, positivity and vitality. We can only truly PLAY on the grounds of mutual respect, which requires manners to lubricate the wheels of cooperation. So please read the following instructions carefully before you Contact [www.seattledungeon.com/LadyLydia/contact.php] Lady Lydia, so you understand how she will expect you to behave.

Arriving for your session

• If you arrive early at Lady Lydia’s Dungeon, please wait patiently in your car until the set time. If you interrupt another’s session then your session will be canceled and you will have to work hard to re-enter Lady Lydia’s good graces.

• If you are late (traffic can be terrible and many of you have families and jobs that may cause some tardiness), then please call [www.seattledungeon.com/LadyLydia/contact.php] Lady Lydia to tell her. If you are more then 30 minutes late and have not called, Lady Lydia will assume you are not going to honor your appointment.

• If Lady Lydia is not at the dungeon when you arrive, then please wait patiently. Traffic can be difficult for her as well.

• If you have to cancel or change an appointment, please give ample notice. Lady Lydia does not live at the dungeon and will not be happy if she drives there to discover an email stating that you will not be arriving. CALL if you are not going to be able to honor your appointment.

• If Lady Lydia has to change or cancel an appointment she expects you to be as respectful of her needs as she will be of yours if you must change your plans. Remember, we all have lives outside of the dungeon fantasy space.

• Only give gifts to Lady Lydia directly. Do NOT leave them at the dungeon. If you can not hand deliver them to Lady Lydia, then we will have to make other arrangements.

• Please respect Lady Lydia’s privacy as she will respect yours. Be respectful in all emails and dialog. If you are being rude, abusive, or overly needy, Lady Lydia will end all communications.

• You must be clean. That means showered, dressed appropriately for “normal” life, teeth brushed, and feet and other potentially smelly areas free of odor.

• Please do not arrive in visible fetish wear or openly carrying your latest fetish implements. Lady Lydia keeps her business private and expects you to honor that. Discretion is the key.

Negotiating your session

When you arrive at the Seattle Dungeon, Lady Lydia will continue interviewing you about specifics prior to beginning your scene. She will doubtless inundate you with questions upon questions to extract as much of your history, fantasies, limits, fetishes, and expectations as is possible.

This is the appropriate time expand on the information you gave in the New client form and communicate what you are open to, what you have experimented with, and if there are any areas that MUST be avoided for your psychological or physical well being. Be prepared to state your experiences, fantasies, interests, limits, and extraneous physical or mental issues in a clear fashion. This is also the appropriate time to discuss your safe word. Some extreme activities may require the signing of a release form. Your session begins once the scene negotiations have ended. If you are prone to nervousness, then please bring a small written list to refer to during negotiations.

Offerings, Tributes, Tips, and Gifts: Appreciative Gratitude

A true gift is selfless on your part and is for Lady Lydia’s pleasure above all. By popular demand, Lady Lydia has posted a list for tributes and gifts in her wish list [www.seattledungeon.com/LadyLydia/offerings.php].

Scene Manners & Etiquette: How to Please Lady Lydia

Always be tolerant, patient, attentive and respectful, and exhibit your finest manners. If you are given a safe word, remember it for you to communicate that you are experiencing something physically or mentally potentially damaging. You are expected to communicate such serious situations should they occur, and you will NOT be reprimanded or chastised for using your safe word responsibly. It is very rare that a safe word is actually put to use as Lady Lydia will be paying full attention to your body language. She will respect your boundaries, physical and emotional limits, to ensure your well-being. Do NOT abuse your safe word by trite and trivial overuse. Your safe word is a safety tool, not a device for you to manipulate your session to suit your whimsical preferences. If you abuse your safe word your session will end promptly.

RUDENESS AND DISRESPECT ARE NEVER TOLERATED.

DO NOT TRY TO PROVOKE LADY LYDIA,
OR YOUR SESSION WILL END PROMPTLY.

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